Friday, January 16, 2015

CTFxC: What you may have missed


Ola guys! If you have no idea what CTFxC is, then this post is not for you. Also, keep in mind everything expressed in this post is MY OPINION ONLY or simple speculation or guesswork, not actual fact. Anyways, let's get started!


Before we get started, in case you missed my first post, you can find it ON THIS LINK
And the third and final post is up HERE

This girl's post (these are not my words) explains exactly how I feel, and I couldn't have said it better myself. Read up:

Anyways, as you may know, Charles and the 3rd Allie posted 2 videos on the CTFxC channel: one where they talk about their first date, and one where they answer some questions. They refuse to share how they really met, or when exactly their first date took place. Now, I am convinced their first date took place before Charles posted the separation video, but more on that in the future posts. Here I will share with you some information I failed to share on my last post: how far back Charles and Allie go.

They have refused to give us any dates to their relationship: when they first met in person, how and when he asked her on a date, and when did this first date take place. What we do know is that on April 22nd they were hanging out. Now, according to their story, on their first date they got to meet up and really talk for the 1st time (really?). So, them hanging out here with the turtle shows they must have already been dating on April 22nd. The problem is - Charles announced the separation (it was a divorce right away, but he called it a separation) on April 8th. 
Number of days passed from the separation announcement until him out in public with his new GF: 14 DAYS.
***edit: I stand corrected, she went mini-golfing with him and his friends on April 21st. So, 13 DAYS.

Let me be very clear about something: he and his wife have been kissing in videos, and have kissed just a few days before the separation was announced. They were talking about keeping Chico, planning the future, etc. Then Charles posts that video where he claims is upset, bla bla. Yet, 13 DAYS LATER, he is out with his new girlfriend. Think about this. From separation to new girlfriend in under 13 days.

Here you can see Allie in a video next to Charles, on May 12th, barely a month has passed:

So, one of the main reasons for writing a new post is because I get very angry with how Charles is treating Alli. Alli has been a class act and hasn't spoken of Charles at all since the divorce. He, on the other hand, is unable to do so, and is liking comments where people talk poorly of her. Now, this photo below got a lot of people angry. This is what Charles has been doing lately: in the comments on his videos, he looks for comments that trash or bad mouth his ex wife, and then he 'hearts' them. Or says 'thank you'. Whenever he's asked about it, he claims he responds to the positive part of the comment. But is it really necessary to put a ''heart'' on a comment where someone calls your ex-wife a bad name? Even his loyal fans have noticed this, and you can always find them complaining about how ''Charles only responds to bad comments''. 
Now this comment above is really disturbing to witness. As you may or may not know, Alli has a boyfriend now, and she has spoken about him once and has posted 1 photo on her Instagram (1 mention, 1 photo; a lot LESS than how many times Charles has mentioned his new girlfriend). Now, Alli could have easily liked a comment where someone calls 3rd Allie a homewrecker whore or says that she's ugly or talks about her DUI. But she never did anything of the sort. Not once. 
All I'm saying is, if Alli is able to refrain from liking mean comments, Charles sure as hell can make an effort to stop liking mean comments about Alli. I mean, a 'fuck piece'? That's so offensive. Not even I have called his GF a 'fuck piece'. That just shows his true character.
UPDATED:
So I happened to see that people are saying that Charles didn't like the ''fuck piece'' comment, but that he liked a nicer comment, and that the photos are edited (wtf people?!). Since you guys have SWAMPED my email with a gazillion screenshots, I knew this was not the case, so I went to check out what the comment says now. And to my surprise, the name of the poster is different, but also all the cursing and name calling is out. NOTICE THE ''EDITED'' SIGN IN TOP LEFT CORNER:

Pissed me off (naturally), so I let her know we all know what the comment ORIGINALLY said:
And here came the accusations - that I edited the screenshots. LOL Please, I may do a lot of things, but edit HER words I did not. There's no need to do this, since there are so many nasty comments ''hearted'' by Charles:
And the screenshots below are simply my way of clearing my name, since I see that (shockingly so) the vast majority of people believe that the ''fuck piece'' comment never existed. Here is her first lie, she claimed she wanted to type ''fella'' instead of ''fuck piece'', and that's why she edited her own comment (mind you, she confesses that she herself has edited her comment, while today she's accusing me of doing it). Her second lie is that I edited her own post LMFAO. What's the next lie gonna be, Rebecca ?:
In case anyone has any doubts, here is an UNTAMPERED screenshot, about 6 minutes after Charles left his ''heart'':




Again, this girl Rebecca (she keeps changing her name, now she's becsxo ) is still at it, trying to convince people that I edited her comment (which I have no need to do, since Charles has liked many mean comments about Alli). People aren't believing her, but still:
Now, before I even wrote this blog post, her original UNALTERED comment was up on Reddit, posted by some random person, so clearly I did not edit it ''for my blog'' - it was on the Internet before I ever even spotted it!!!
If I post a screenshot here, I may hide a person's name. That's all I will do or change. I have no interest in editing people's comments. That's pathetic, almost as pathetic as accusing someone of editing your comment, which I clearly cannot do. In case you haven't figured it out, I edit these posts in Paint, LOL top technology LMFAO!!!! She obviously called Chase a 'fuck piece'. And Charles liked her comment. 
I do not care for liars. If you still think I may have edited her post or altered it in photoshop or wherever, then read it all again. 

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 Anyways, more mean comments approved of:
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What pissed me off is that he was talking on Alli's behalf. He was saying ''me and my ex want this'', or ''me and my ex feel this way''. This is wrong to do. You are no longer together, and you do not speak for her. I know that's one thing that really upsets me - when he talks in Alli's name. Not cool dude. She can speak for herself.

Now this comment has been THE MOST TALKED ABOUT. Why? Because it shows Charles liking a mean comment on one of Alli's videos. That means, he went to her channel. He looked for a mean comment. He +1'd it. Observe:


Ok, moving on. This comment, when I saw it, I noticed she refers to him as ''this kid''. No big deal, right?
Well, then this swam out:
She says in this facebook status from a year ago that she went out and talked to ''that kid''. Charles liked this status. And you know, at first I though that maybe I was reading too much into this. But then again, Charles is 1 of only 10 people who liked this status. Did he already personally know her back then (this all happened, January of LAST YEAR), about a month before he was going to get his wedding date tattooed on him?
Well, something new happened. On THIS YEAR's January 5th, the two of them did something: they talked about ''how they met'', or to be precise, they talked about their first date. Could it be that their 1st date took place on January 5th 2014 (3 months before the separation?). Lots of people are speculating about this - of course, this is just speculation.

If you want my 2 cents, I think they did go out long before the separation was announced. Keep in mind, Charles was kissing his wife in the videos up until a few days until the separation announcement. In their new video ''how we met'', Charles's sister Melissa says that Charles was ''so ready to go on that date''. When did he get ready? Because if they went after the separation video, Allie would have seen it and there would be no need to ask Charles if he was still married. Right? And if they really did go after the separation, then how could he be ''ready''? It's been a few days, and his marriage just broke up. Shouldn't he have taken some time for himself? There's no shame in being single, dude.


Was he single at all during 2014? And for how long?
I'm TEAM ALLI all the way. If Charles and Allie have nothing to hide, why not share with us the date on which their first date took place? Why not? And if he and his wife Alli were truly separated months before they announced it, then why the hell can we see him kissing her a few videos before the split? Why tatttoo the wedding date on him? It doesn't make any sense to me.



You might be wondering why I put up the ''birthday'' tweet. Well, the thing is, on Charles's birthday, his fans kept tweeting Alli Speed about will she congratulate him. I felt like this tweet above was yet another example of Charles trying to make Alli look bad. You know what I mean, like, ''look guys, she didn't tell me happy birthday''. You know, Charles, there comes a time in life when you should stop expecting other people to make a big deal about your birthday. That time is age eleven.
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To sum up today's post, in the words of the great Lauren:


A huge thanks to all the people who made some of these amazing screenshots (when I was too slow), the guys over at: be a fucking decent person (click on the name) and the ladies over at GG forum (though apparently they don't want to be linked back).

Now, yes, you are free to leave a comment below.
However, if you curse a ton, or if you just insult or attack me, or are acting like an 8yo brat, I will delete those comments. You can support Charles, but do so without attacking others. I have no need to keep mean comments. That's my prerogative (some of you younger ones might want to google this word LOL).

****Please note that all the things stated in this post are my personal opinion, and feature information from the internet that may or may not be true. Please take this with caution, and use your brain wisely. This post was written so I can express my opinion on what has happened in this youtube show. Please regard it as my opinion only, not as actual fact. Also, you may do some investigating yourself. This post was not written with the purpose of bashing Charles or anyone else, but for me to get some things off my chest that have made me incredibly sad. Obviously I do not own any of the photos featured in this post. I have not personally met any of the people mentioned in this post. Just stay positive and enjoy your day.

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  1. I have an idea of what could possibly have gone on.. Charles and Alli both stated that they had been thinking about getting a divorce the year before. What I think happened is Charles ended up cheating on Alli, and she threatened him with divorce. Charles,not wanting that to happen, told her he would change. Fast forward, Charles gets the wedding date tattooed to prove to Alli that he's changed and loves her. A couple more months, and Alli finds Charles talking to Allie. Alli abruptly leaves their home and tells him that was the final straw. Which makes sense for why he was alone in the announcement video. It jusf makes sense to me because why else would Alli let the dogs meet each other? Why would she continue to fix up the house if she didn't see herself living there the rest of her life? Why would Alli's parents give rides to Charles and help him out if they knew he was already moved on? Alli seems to me like she'll forgive you once, but when you do the same shit again there's no going back.

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    1. I do not believe Charles when he says they have been separated for a long time. If that were true, why would they kiss in the videos? I too think it was very abrupt - Alli left in a huge hurry. So I think she found something out that she didn't like and she left his ass. That explains why HE made the video all by himself and why SHE took 2 weeks off and didn't say anything: she was in shock. Whatever it is, I think that Alli was the one trying to work on the marriage, and Charles was working on his relationship with Allie. If he didn't do anything wrong, he would tell us the date of his first date with 3rd Allie, etc....

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  2. To be SUPER honest, I'm disappointed at both Alli and Charles. Ever since Charles didn't go to vidcon or w.e it was, I knew things were bad, no one loses a wallet out of nowhere and then finds it right after the event ends (yeah okaayy).

    Neither of them are transparent, Charles give half ass explanations about the problem, and Alli gives 0 fucks, and I understand why, BUT I cant help but feel there is waayy more to their separation&Divorce. Alli in her D word video, she said that the reasoning of divorcing had to do with pre-existing feelings shes had since before getting engaged. but Melissa in that video charles put up of how him and Allie met, she said something about the timing being right. So putting 2 and 2 together makes me think that there is more that what they want to show.

    My theory? They both cheated on each other, found out, and decided to finally divorce. The whole letting the dogs get to know each other, charles getting the tattoo and acting like things are fine, were just some stupid acts to keep us the viewers "distracted". Ever since I came to this conclusion I have been, frankly, disappointed and disgusted at both of them.

    also Charles selling all of Alli's merch wasnt a douche move, I really think it must've been in the divorce file that Alli should get her money from her then existing merch.

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    1. EDIT adding to the first paragraph...--> also after Charles losing his wallet, things are weird, awkward, tense and forced between them both...

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    2. I remember when he lost his wallet, and I immediately said in the comments that it's very sketchy...especially how he found it right after. Now it's universally thought he faked the whole thing.
      I really don't feel like Alli is the type to fake a relationship for the videos, but that's what Charles strikes me as. I really feel like she tried to make the marriage work, and Charles gave up a long time before she did. As far as the merch goes, viewers asked many times in the comments if Alli will be getting a cut from the merch with her face on it, and Charles has never responded (as far as I know). I thought the discount on the merch was so depressing: who wants a poster of 2 people who used to be a couple? I thought he should have just taken it off the site, instead of cutting down the prices.
      There are a lot of things to notice in the old videos, now that we know that their marriage was in crisis: but I feel like the whole pretending for the camera is such a bad move. It was bad for the viewers, but it was bad for them: it's not easy living while trying to conceal a huge lie. I think that maybe their marriage could have worked if only Charles forgot about the stupid world record and taken a few days off; and it would do him good (EVEN NOW) to just take some time off. He has the dumb world record, he can take a break.

      What I'm mad about is the fact Charles did not take any time for himself, to be single. His marriage broke off, and I think he should have done some soul searching, taken some time to heal - but he never did. Alli took 2 weeks off (as a normal person). He was obviously texting and talking (if only via computer) to the 3rd Allie while him and Alli were still living together. And if you believe he waited until after the separation was announced, then that only leaves him less than 2 weeks time IN BETWEEN THE 2 RELATIONSHIPS. Even if you think they arranged the separation months in advance (I do not believe this for a second), THE TWO OF THEM WERE STILL KISSING IN THE VIDEOS AND STILL LIVING TOGETHER. When you think about all the evidence we now know: he got a divorce, and went into a new relationship, but he was never really single. At least not emotionally. He jumped right into the next relationship. Because from the last time WE see him kissing his wife until the first time WE see him on a date with his new girlfriend: there is about a 2 week window. If you ask me, that's just not enough time to be (as Melissa put it) ''totally ready to move on''. I think the fact he hasn't been single at all in the last 10 years is the main reason why all his relationships fail: you cant be with someone if you haven't got a clue about who you are. Well, at least that's how I feel.
      As far as 3rd Allie goes, she claims it bothers her that she's called a HW W. But if she and Charles went on a first date WHILE Alli was still living in the same home with Charles, then what she did was wrong. If they were texting and flirting and skyping WHILE Charles was still living with Alli and kissing Alli and making daily videos with her, then a HW W she is. I would have backed off of some guy that's just separated. If not for my own sake, then at least for his. I feel Charles is in desperate need of some 'alone time'. And all of her bullshit that she had no idea what ctfxc was - I don't believe her for a second: look at her now - she's LOVING the attention. So, if you ask me, I think she wanted to be in this relationship for the benefits: dating a ''rock star'', easy cash, and being a part of an already established business. I feel like there's really no real love there - it was a calculated move.

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    3. Mind you, what Charles called a separation was actually a divorce - in the ''we need to talk'' video, he said to the viewers that it was a 'separation', but he said to ShayCarl that same day (via phone) that it was a 'divorce'. So if he went on a 1st date with 3rd Allie AFTER that video he wouldn't have told 3rd Allie it was a 'SEPARATION', he would have said it was a divorce (in the 'how me met' video, 3rd Allie says he told her on their first date that he was separated). That leads me to think they went on their date before the ''we need to talk video''. In fact, I'm inclined to think they went on the date (and made out), Alli found out, and that's why she left so abruptly. More on that in my next post, coming up soon.

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    4. I get all that, and I agree with you, but you cant be one sided with this, Alli also participated in this facade. I don't know if you know, but in the state of Florida divorces are filed and processed fully for about 5 months to a year, if a Florida divorce happens in less than 5 months, its because one of the spouses did not show up, and they still grant the divorce but I'm pretty sure this isnt the case. Its possible they were already in the process of either separating or divorce, but they were faking the whole thing of "we're still happy guys, no big deal!"

      That is what gets me, that both of them together, faked it. Its also possible that video Charles made could've been made a different day or week from when he uploaded it...Because I consider all these things, I strongly feel BOTH of them faked until they couldn't keep up anymore, or that the divorce was almost finalized.

      Even if Charles waited time after the announcement He still would've been heckled over dating just like he is now. Alli now has a boyfriend, and apparently She's known him a long time, and hes known her since shes been married as well and no one is making a big deal out of that, but the difference is she reveals shes dating almost a year after the announcement. You're probably going to say all of this is stupid, but its not, think about it.

      Also if you're in a separation you cant get mad if the other person decides to see other people, wth is this? Ross and Rachel? Charles and Alli separated with the intention of eventually getting divorced. you broke up, not put a relationship on hold.

      Charles and Alli failed each other, the difference is Charles is impulsive and Alli is smart. I believe that maybe they didnt cheat on each other, that they just dont go together and it took them this long to realize it and in a bad way.

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    5. My point in all this...Charles is a douche...but Alli isnt an angel in all this either...

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    6. I think in Florida the records are public, so you can see the date when they filed for divorce, right? Can someone find it? I know I've seen some of these public records somewhere....
      Personally, I don't think Alli faked it, because of the way she left. She left so abruptly and suddenly, and her tweet ''shit hit the fan'', makes me think it was sudden. Because if it was planned for a long time, then both of them would sit together and make a video explaining it. Charles made the video without her. So that's why I think it was abrupt.
      As the timing of the video, people have been discussing it for a while, and in the video he's not wearing the wedding ring, which he wore up until April 7th, and also, considering his beard and hair growth, the video was made April 7th. It was already discussed on the internet so there's no need to go into it, but people have thought of this, and all evidence points to him shooting the video that same day.I personally dont belive it was a separation - i think they were trying to make things work and Charles decided to date.
      Alli's new BF and she know each other for a long time - she knows him longer than Charles: that's better than dating someone you just met. She knows her new BF for almost 10 years, and she's still not putting him in videos. Charles knows his new GF a much shorter time, and she's already incorporated in the show - so I think that's the reason people like Alli better than Charles.
      All I'm saying is, I respect Alli so much more because she's not trash-talking Charles every single day. Charles has 'liked' a ton of shitty comments about Alli - so he's fallen really low in my eyes. Especially with the ''fuck piece'' comment.

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    7. I've tried look for it, but they may have made it private, because you can ask for that I think. Either way it would be really hard because if you google either names, chances of you finding that would be like finding a fishing line in a haystack...and I SOOOOO agree with you on that about Alli being classy, she really has handled all of this like a trooper. Charles has been a douche, but hey what can't you expect from him.

      But what makes me think this way is what she had said in the D word video, that her feelings of doubt and separation have been with her since BEFORE getting married, I feel like she realized she was too young to have married, and to have settled, she really hasnt enjoyed her 20's shes 25 now, she was like what 21ish (my age) when she got married, I'm still in my 3rd year university, and she was getting married starting a life instead of enjoying, but I guess she'll get to do that now.

      but honestly, everyone should just get over the divorce, I mean as long as no form of domestic violence and abuse happened, it was better off they divorce before it escalated to something tragic.

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    8. i too think she got married too young. charles has been engaged once before (before her), so obviously he wanted to get married (even though he was too young as well). I'm glad she's getting to live her life on her own schedule now, without chasing some dumb meaningless world record.

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  3. Didn't he also play the exact same prank on both of them and make a video of it. Where he tapes the fire crackers to the door before they get home. Come on man that just makes you look bad, don't make the exact same video of yourself trying to be "cute" or funny and just change the "Alli's" on us!!

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    1. yeah, he did this prank on Alli at least 3 times (that I can remember). He's just recycling the old relationship, doing all the same 'moves', hoping the viewers won't notice. #yawn

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    2. YES!! and the fact that his brainwashed minions think it's okay that he's mimicking his relationship with his ex-wife is absurd. How is that ok? How is that normal? recreating thumbnails as well. WTF?!

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    3. I mean, he's free to do what he wants. bu it's weird to watch him do the same things with both women. At least I think it's weird for the viewers....

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  4. Admittedly, at the start of 2014 I kept losing track of watching CTFxC daily just because life got busy. So when I saw the "WE NEED TO TALK" I immediately went on a binge of watching three weeks before that video was posted. And it made ZERO sense to me. Why do an "April's Fools" about Alli being pregnant, kiss in the videos, trying to mingle Chico with Zoey and Marley ... I completely understand that many of these actions could have been 'for the sake of the video' and I do believe they had days where they argued and then put on a happy face for the camera. But the abruptness of it all, with Charles making the video solo to him suddenly seeing "Squiggles" just left me with a bad taste in my mouth.

    Charles seems to be the type of person who is very awkward with social interactions but NEEDS to have one that person he can rely on - that significant other in a relationship. Putting aside how BIZARRE it is that he's been in serious relationships with not two but THREE different Ally/i/e's, the fact that he leaps from serious relationship to serious relationship just tells me he does not know how to function on his own, he needs to have someone taking care of him. Maybe he thought that Alli was lacking in the caring department (even though she was by his side CONSTANTLY throughout the brain cancer/surgery and more so than his family) and decided to seek attention through online interaction with Allie until it became too much and Alli realized there was something going on. Either way, it's incredibly sketchy.

    I watch a few videos here and there and follow both Alli and Charles on instagram ... just saw Charles' latest post about bringing Diesel into the living room and it seems like her life is now fully immersed with his. In the house that he and Alli painted, decorated, etc. I understand that not all relationships are meant to be, but it still saddens me how quickly his and Alli's relationship just became a distant memory for Charles and how he just refers to her as his 'ex' instead of someone who was by his side throughout some of the hardest moments of his life.

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    1. I am in love with your comment...everything you said, I heart it ;)

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    2. I honestly feel that his reason for not wanting to be with any longer was because she had her fun side but she also had a serious adult side. Taking care of the house, taking care of bills, being on top of taking meds, eating right and making sure he didn't so crazy shit that might trigger a seizure. In my opinion, Charles wants to be a man child and not deal with mature/adult things. If you watch his videos now it's all fun an games. Two teenagers doing absolutely nothing of substance. Goofing off. Which is fine, but for it to be in every video throughout the entire video (eyeroll) He just needs to grow the fuck up. The lies and the immaturity are getting really old. I'm all for laughs but I feel like I'm babysitting when I try and watch the vlogs now

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    3. I too feel like I'm babysitting. If I was there, I'd be there 1 day, and would avoid them for a week. Alli does fun stuff, but combines them with being an adult. This sort of behavior is also bad for Charles: his GF let him stay up until 6am to edit the vlog, and nobody woke him up for his pannel so he almost missed it? Seems like nowdays nobody's talking care of Charles, and I'm including him in this.

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  5. I agree completely with literally everything you said. Also I'm honored because the part that you posted from GG with Allie checking the edited video was my comment. Glad you agree with me on how "weird" the situation is. :]

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    1. thanks. for me, it would be so weird to be in such a relationship...sometimes when they feed the dogs, they feed them from a plate that has alli's hair-do drawn on it (that used to be in the intro and on the merchandise). I would be so uneasy living in some other woman's home like that.

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    2. Yes, I often am perplexed, is that girl serious? She mustn't have any dignity or personal identity to completely jump into someone else's skin/house/job... It's creepy. Allie, you're weird, selfish and a man/child thief but honestly, karma, baby. What goes around, comes around. That being said, I am sorry I'm judging you. LOL. I wouldn't usually but damn, I've been through that - what are you THINKING?

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    3. To me, their relationship seems so forced - like, Charles desperately needed to be with someone since he can't be single, and Allie was the first person that showed up that had the name required for the job LOL. Honestly, I think they would have ended a long time ago had it not been for some other stuff (Allie needs the lifestyle, Charles needs a caretaker).

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    4. Yeah, they're completely codependent. There's books for this kind of thing; it's pretty common.

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  6. I agree with all of what you have posted on this blog. I may sound a little all over the place and my sentences may run on but i hope you understand what points im trying to state.I am glad you tackled the issue of how he should of taken the time to be single and not hop into another "serious" relationship. I feel that this current relationship will fall apart due to the fact that he has not taken the time for himself and recommit to become a better person and work on the things necessary to be a person who is to be in a committed relationship(not hate, just from watching others experience and my own). the one thing i will add is i find that he is not really "vlogging" he is forcing us to watch the Allie show because he doesnt know what to do for content and would rather drown us in showing her 95 percent of the vlog. The guy has zero friends and i find it comical to see all the other guys in the band hang out and never see charles apart of it. the one thing i do notice is when he is out or with a group of people, you will see him in a corner with allie and or constantly on his phone. I am over the fraudulent ctfxc because it is just like a movie.... not real. i used to enjoy the dynamics of him and alli speed but it is gone. I remind myself after i tune into a vlog that he must sit around or sleep all day and try to come up with 10 mins of bullshit fodder. i hope i make sense with all of this. once again thank you for the two blogs you have put up and im sorry that you have gotten so much hate from everyone. im glad you have spoken up.

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    1. Hello. I feel he should have taken time for himself years ago. He was engaged once, then called off the wedding a few days before it happened. Then he jumped into the next relationship, got engaged, got married, got a divorce, and was already in yet another relationship. There's no shame in being single. I really do feel he needs time for himself.
      A lot of people are starting to complain that the show has become just Allie. And people don't want that. Even the ones that have stayed, they want to watch Charles, not her. She's taken over the show! Which also isn't fair because she wasn't there when they were gaining the viewers and developing to show to what it is today.
      I too have noticed the lack of friends, but only after I've seen Alli hanging out with her friends now that they've gone their separate ways. Maybe he needs to widen his circles? Honestly, I think the best thing for him would be to vlog 3 days a week, and take the rest of the week for himself - I think he would be SO MUCH HAPPIER. Also, people get sick of daily vlogs. Maybe he'd get more views if he just didnt post so many videos?
      By the way, nobody's out to get Charles, or to hate him just to hate him, not even me. People are noticing the lies and how unhappy he is, and they're trying to point it out, yet he's reacting very poorly to any advice. Honestly, I watched the vlogs for Alli, she was so interesting and amusing, and time just flew by with her. I am LOVING all the content she's putting on her new channel. Without her, I cant watch Charles. He's boring (like a frat boy), has a very limited vocabulary, and is too immature for me. With Alli I feel like I'm finding out so much - like when she's travelling she makes the vids interesting and always has something interesting to share. If Charles travels somewhere he just makes fun of how different they are from us. I think he made a huge mistake, and Alli was the person the community revolved around. Without her, he's just a boring guy that can't get over his ego. I think he could be a better person, I just don't think he is at this point. Thanks for your kind words. Have a nice day. :)

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  7. One of your main complaints/problems with Charles is that he is "liking" and commenting positivity in return to hate comments on Alli, right? As a caveat, I do not support some of Charles's recent actions. However, I don't see how what you're doing is any different than what he is doing. Instead of supporting negative comments towards Alli like Charles is, you're simply doing the flip side of it and support negative comments towards Charles. Of course I know the comments are not all you address and speculate on, but it is a huge part. So I ask, how is what you're doing any different?

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    1. Because I'm not creating any new controversy: I am simply saving all of HIS comments and placing them here for all to see. I'm just showing people what he's doing.
      What makes this different is that I'm not a party in this divorce: Charles and Alli are. If I was liking comments on a former spouse of MINE, that would be something to talk about. The same (but opposite) of what Charles has been doing would be if Alli herself liked comments that talk bad about Charles.
      Since I don't know the two of them, I'm just some random person on the Internet, no different than anyone else in the audience, regardless of whether they leave mean or nice comments.
      Mind you, I'd literally have NOTHING to talk about had Charles never left any nasty comments to begin with. So, as immature as this may sound, he started this. I'm just finishing it (or taking it to another level).

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    2. However unjustified, thank you for replying with your argument.

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    3. I'm glad we can discuss it like adults ;)

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    4. We shouldn't judge, true. But the fact is, they put their lives out there, many of us followed and CARED for years and then he just scrapped it. What was he expecting? We're not robots (well, maybe Allie is) and it was a shitty way to go. In any case, if he'd be decent, or just not Vlog it all, maybe it would die?

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  8. Okay, thank you for giving your opinion about that.

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  9. I was on Charles's side.... at first. It takes me a really long time to get through videos because I'm subscribed to so many people (I just got through all the 2013 videos) so I only watched the Christmas 2013 videos where Alli was obviously pissed about something. I thought she was treating him bad and he was miserable... or so I thought. When I saw that he had another girlfriend already, something didn't sit right with me so I googled it and this blog came up.... and that's when everything clicked in my brain. That Charles really did cheat. I tried watching a new video, where the end music is still the same, only there's no words. It's more pathetic than anything, really. The only way things will ever be okay is if he 1. Eventually comes clean (which will probably never happen) or 2. He does the same thing to this girl that he did to his wife. What makes this girl think she's special and he won't do the same thing to her that he did to his 2 previous girls? I guess only time will tell. But I'm waiting for it to happen.

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    1. A lot of people were on his side when this whole thing started - Alli did not say anything, and Charles was all depressed and sad in the video. So people assumed Alli left him and broke his heart. Turns out he was at that time (probably) already dating the 3rd Allie, so I doubt he could have been really sad. In a lot of videos you can see Alli was upset with Charles, but we never find out the reason. So it looked like she was treating him badly, but clearly she had a reason. I mean, can you imagine it: your marriage is falling apart, and your husband refuses to quit the stupid stressful job because he wants to continue having a world record?! That's so dumb. I do think Charles would get a lot of support if he had come clean in the beginning - but if he should come clean now, that would mean he had been lying to all his viewers all this time. So he's screwed no matter what he says.
      I also don't get 3rd Allie - I would keep waiting for him to cheat, I don't get how she isn't scared of that. It looks like Charles and her are already fighting and calling each other names - that is not looking good. not good at all.

      To be quite honest, I always had an impression that Charles stabbed Alli in the back - I am convinced that he and Alli made the announcement video together, and that when she went on a plane to visit her friend, he shot a different version with just himself, and he released that one. But that's just me.

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    2. Same. And you know, it's true, if he cheated WITH you, he will cheat ON you. It's just the way it is. Further, those that hook up this way fall apart, practically every time. It's not genuine. I hate to say this, and though I'm unsunscribed, I occasionally see them pop up UNDER Alli vids (which is irritating) and all I can see is FAKE. I wish them all the best but statistically speaking, nope, fake, never gonna work, etc. Alli & Chase have a far better chance, are far healthier and frankly, much sweeter. :)

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    3. ^^ *Unsubscribed

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  10. Well... I'm glad this post was up here because I read yours and was shocked to find out how stupid I was. I have never been married but I have been in a relationship where the guy was keeping a huge secret from me (it was drug related) and I flipped when I found out. It's been 3 years and I still refuse to even have him in my life even a little. I just think this Allie is a place holder, just a blip on his radar screen until he gets tired of her and meets someone else. And will go down in history as the biggest douche on the planet. Because, let's face it, he's kind of already halfway there anyhow. I'm glad I finally saw the light and am happy that Alli met someone worth her while. She's obviously the only one with brains and class in this situation.

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    1. yeah, Alli's with an educated guy now, who is nice, and between charles and 3rd allie - they speak 1 language and are not into learning and exploring the world. when alli was with charles, she was selling herself short. I'm glad she found someone on her level. ;)

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  11. Me too.... I unsubscribed from Charles yesterday, I guess I stayed because I wanted to see if they would come clean but it all pissed me off when everyone was eating it up. I know I'm only one person, but I refuse to contribute anything to him anymore. I feel like he just expected every one to be okay with what he did with no explanation. How can people really believe that these two "don't remember" how they met? Riiiight. I'm so happy for Alli. She got out.

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    1. yeah, honestly, have you ever been in a relationship with someone, or had a very good friend, and you had no idea how you met them? yeah, they're full of bullshit.

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  12. There have been times where the exact moment of when we became friends slipped my mind, but never "we met in college" when she was worried he'd "be a creep" on their first date.

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    1. exactly. even if you don't know exactly, you at least know SOMETHING. these guys claim they havent got a clue...just lies....

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  13. I only just stopped watching CTFxC a couple weeks ago, mainly because as some of you have pointed out, Charles and Allie together being stupid the whole video is tiring to watch everyday, and I did too feel like I was babysitting. I loved the old videos because no matter how stupid Charles acted, Alli almost always balanced him out. Without her now, it's like I realized just how obnoxious he is. Everyone should have a bit of them that's young and fun, but not to the extent Charles has. He is just a large child 99.9% of the time. And it angers me when people blame Alli for bringing him down, when really, he does constantly need to be looked after and told not to do idiotic things. Also without Alli to be the mature balance in the vlogs, it made me realize just how sexist he is. He makes those kinds of comments all the fucking time, and runs the same dumbass jokes into the ground. Not only that but (I think someone touched on this above), that anything different from him, he points it out and makes fun of it. That's why I love Alli, she embraces different and teaches us about it in respectful ways. I want to believe that Charles is a good guy. But he's just not the same dude I looked up to a few years ago. Or maybe it's me that's changed, having my eyes opened by so many things that have been revealed in the past year. Either way, it's very disappointing. But I'm thankful that even if one of my (now former) heroes isn't who I thought they were, I'm glad that Alli juts keeps proving to me that she is the kind of human that I strive to be. Ever since the split, I have yet to miss a video of hers, and I am beyond grateful that she chose to keep posting after all the shit thrown her way.

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    1. When Alli was there, whenever Charles would do something insanely stupid, he'd turn his head to look at her, and her face made him stop and re-think his actions. She made him a little more normal. Now whenever he looks around, he is encouraged to do stupid things or act like a child, and people just don't want to watch this all the time. I think one of the main reasons why Charles is losing support is - a lot of his audience is very young, they're teens. In the last 6 years, they've grown up and sort of feel like they've outgrown Charles. He is, sadly, too young for his audience who is on the break of adulthood - they're probably thinking about college etc. and Charles being immature doesn't 'fit' into their mindset right now. Also, many of his audience are going through 1st relationships, and maybe it's difficult to see him move on so quickly into the next relationship, people feel a loyalty towards Alli that is difficult to dismiss. I am so grateful that Alli has continued posting - she is showing that today, just because you're a woman and you have a divorce it doesn't mean your life is over, or that you need to hide. She's really become a role-model, considering how she handled the entire situation.

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  14. It's liberating, isn't it, to finally let go. You got used to his videos and wanted to believe that he was good, but I just watched a video where his mother in law was in the hospital and he got her some childish, stupid card that made absolutely no sense. All because Alli was in Japan and couldn't stop it. I'm so happy that more people are finding this blog and spreading the word about how useless Charles trippy is.

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    1. I just saw that video a few days ago and I share your thoughts. Lauren was still pretty drugged up after the surgery, and she didn't get the card, but he kept insisting on it and showing it. I also don't understand why he HAD TO film her at such a time - the whole scene was distasteful to me.

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  15. I'm so thrilled to have found all this. I thought I was just super sensitive about it cuz I've been through the SAME thing! In any case, he's an egomaniacal child (evident on the millionaire show but then he was "young"... RIGHT?) and going forward... I thought CTFxC was awesome cuz of the relationship and her support for him with cancer, etc. It was a brutal slap in the face (reminder) for me..this happens all the time and mostly cuz of egomaniacal, spoiled, selfish men. True. Kudos to Lauren and the rest of the family (of course, especially and foremost Alli) for keeping it classy. I am WAY older than ya'all and truly hurt for her, for all of them. They lost so much, the least of which was the cheating (yes, he did, of course) child/man Charles. The house, the business, the fans, the dogs, I mean.. sad. And then to be trashed continuously and have to sleep every night knowing you've been immediately replaced... wow... what a DOUCHE! I mean, it's hard enough to suffer it privately.

    I might also add there must be some mental illness having three Alli(e)s in a row.. that's creepy as hell. <3 to the Charles deserters. (Did you notice in their recent wedding video only CTFxC had drama galore in the comments? Alli's is just... casual and peaceful. Thank Goddess... Love you ALLI!!)

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    1. I also noticed Charles has it bad in the comment section - but I think he draws the negativity by responding to the mean comments and always talking about them. I think he could benefit from deleting comments or censuring them. If people see no hate, they will spread no hate. I too am glad to see Alli has moved on and is happy - she deserves to be. the third Allie is a horribly toxic person, and I'm glad Charles is with her - he deserves to be miserable in my opinion. Thanks for your comment!

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    2. Yes, I've found the smart ones. LOL. I just saw some chick goin on and on and meeting "ChAllie" in the SLC airport and how "they're just human beings" and "doin the best they can"... gushing and oohing and ahhing... I was laughing my butt off! Get out of here. Bunch of children stomping around on the playground. Oh well, in the end, Alli is better off and I hope Charles wakes up before he's 50 but.. once a cheater, always? Perhaps all this circus will help him to grow up before he's hit the midlife crisis. And the CTFxCers are just ... either they've never been through anything like this or they're just not mature enough to understand divorce, space, time, rebound relationships, etc. I had a 6-month-long debate with some kid trying to teach me how you just "move on" in five minutes. Really? LOL! CTFxCircus is what is - for immature peeps. Live and learn, kids, you'll see eventually. No hating, just saying. (Oh, I friended you on FB or something, just FYI. With my actual name. This is too public for my name as I have priorities and obligations outside of this drama; this is just five minutes of contemplation, no need for war! Just opinions.)

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    3. In my experience, people who defend Charles and 3rd Alie the most are pre-teens, kids aged 11 years or something like that. I think moving on in life is acceptable, but moving on from such a relationship in a matter of days is bad - not just bad manners or morals, but bad for him. When he left his 1st fiance and started dating Alli in a few days, I thought maybe it was meant to be, so I let it slide. But considering he does this often, it raises questions. I think, if anything, Alli Speed has deserved and earned some respect - if anything, just dont thumbs up or heart comments that tell horrible things about her. Just do that, please, Charles.

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  16. After recently going through a situation where one person is bad mouthing me all over town, I am taking Alli's lead and not responding to any of it. This isn't a relationship, but a 13 year old friendship that evidently means nothing to some people. I'm sorry for what happened to you, but you seem like you made it through.

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    1. I am sorry this has happened to you. I think this whole thing might have been fine if only Charles never treated Alli so badly and bad-mouthed her in the comments. He brought this on himself, as far as I'm concerned.

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  17. She's thinking she's gonna have a cush life, no regard to human decency and she deserves whatever happens to her.

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  18. after reading through all that stuff
    here is I think what could have happened
    1) alli wes and charles trippy could be college friends as alli speed and charlie are
    2) alli speed and charlie got married and the wes moved her in life (both kept in contact with each other )
    3) then alli wes got the DUI and she entered into an abusing relationship...... As college friends charlie got have shown some sympathy to her as frnds nrmlly do ....... (the sympathy turned into awkard relationship and they both started texting and ish )
    4) i think alli speed got to know about this stuff and defo something bad had happenedand alli warned charlie of further "Mishaps"
    5) I think charlie went on the date first and alli somehow got 2 knew this shit !
    6) she went to japan to calm herself off while charlie now extensively started dating her
    7) Alli speed came to knew of that shit so she suddenly disappered from the vids were as we can see lauren sticking around stil
    8) finally alli got all the pieces 2gether and decided to cut this thing off as she was busy setting up her new house and still hoping about something to work out
    9) AND THE GREAT END OF THE VLOGGITY.................charlie uploaded a video "WE NEED TO TALK " that made the situation worst and their relationship failed
    10) this alli DICK came around in that time of divorce and said let her go we will start this again completely and they started talking texting etc
    11) AND she came in the vlogs !!
    12) evidences in the vlogs suggesting it all happened
    WE NEED TO TALK:- ME AND ALLI WERE ARGUING MORE THAN Necessary ( means they were arguing on this ALOT )
    13) charlie doesnot look sad and shit
    in the secrets about us he has edited the video extensively to show us what he needs to show and indirectly get the hate on alli speed
    FUCK CTFxC HAS MESSED UP ON THIS

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    1. 1 - they are not college friends. they claim they dont know how they met, and then later they say ''when we first met''....so, they are not old time friends. they met during his marriage to alli speed.
      3 - she was never in an abusive relationship. she said that her boyfriend ''did something bad to her'', maybe he cheated, who knows (maybe he never did anything bad, maybe she made it all up). she uses this as an excuse for DUI, which is not ok. she was drunk, she drove the car, it's her fault.
      6 - when alli was in japan, she often talked about what it takes to make a marriage work, and her parents were taking care of charles while he was on chemo, so their marriage wasnt over, and it was not ok for him to date someone else.
      7 - when alli went away from the videos, they had already decided to divorce.
      8 - when alli speed bought her house, she had then already dumped charles's lying ass for good, so she wasnt working on their relationship any more
      9 - charles uploading the 'we need to talk' video was a stab in the back to alli, because he didnt give her a chance to talk, and portrayed himself as the victim. he also lied to all the viewers when he said it was a separation, but in fact he knew that day that it was deff. a divorce.
      10 - at the time of the 'we need to talk video', we already know charles has been dating allie wes for a while, and they have been in communication for months at this point.

      I think you need to go back and read all my 3 posts, because you're missing a few key points. charles was kissing his wife alli in videos and portraying a happy marriage, while we have proof that he had been texting and meeting and talking to this new allie chick for months before his marriage fell apart. he is shady.
      i do personally believe he is a nasty cheater.

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